Category Archives: Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Girls
My G-Spot History
G Spot
According to everything I read when I was learning about my sexuality, hidden in tree forts and in the back of the neighbors garage, from the ill gotten playboys and penthouse, was that the g-spot was this amazing thing that, should a woman have one, just needed the slightest of touch to send her into multi-orgasmic seizures. It was like the button on game shows. All someone would need to do is slap it and…
BUUZZZ!!!! I could *not* wait.
I looked for it on my own but was unsuccessful. I obviously needed someone to help me find it. Maybe boys, and certain worldly girls, were born with the knowledge of just were this 8th wonder of the world lay hidden.
Imagine my disappointment when I found out they were not.
It’s taken years of personal research, but here is what I have decided.
- I do have a g-spot!
- I love g-spot stimulation
- I don’t come from simply g-spot stimulation.
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Shiny Bunny
Mmmm... ninja bunny
When I first decided to review sex toys for Eden Fantasys, I of course headed straight to The Rabbits. What girl doesn’t love a rabbit? Once, in front of my mom, sister, my husband cracked a joke about my rabbit de jour. He assumed it was going to be an inside joke. It was not. My mom and sister snickered. He blushed. EVERY woman knows The Rabbit, my mom informs him.
The Platinum Jack Rabbit is not only pretty… it inspired giggles.
It’s a bit thicker then any of my previous rabbits and very…. aggressive. This is why, even though it’s not classified as a g-spot toy, that I’ve decided to include it in my g-spot January posts. The bunny vibrates against your clit, the beads twirls against the opening of your vagina, and the shaft twists and thumps on your g-spot. That makes it very good for woman who are mostly clitoral, but sometimes g-spot. The twisty shaft is strong. It doesn’t stand down when put under a little pressure – if you know what I mean. When I use it, I have to keep my legs closed tight around it so that the shaft is moving inside me – otherwise the handle is slapping me on the thigh.
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G Spot or Clitoral?
Maybe you're holding the map wrong...
A couple of days ago I asked my followers on twitter if they preferred g-spot or clitoral orgasms. The response was really interesting! I totally want to thank everyone who answered, either directly, by DM, or by leaving a anonymous note on my blog.
Clitoral definitely, though my best O’s come from clitoral stim (with vibrator) during sex (as opposed to just clitoral stimulation).
Honestly from both but the intensity differs. If it’s from the g spot it’s usually way harder than just clitoral stimulation
Both, but c’s are stronger and more satisfying. However, g’s will get better as I trust myself to let go. Hard to do.
I used to be a g-spot girl w/ the rare clitoral O, now I’m the total opposite. Just sort of changed as I got older.
Both but i prefer g-spot. I’m guessing I’m in the minority there.
Yay g-spot! Especially when finding it can cause “squirting”- I hate that word. Is there a better one to use?!
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The Hipster Homemaker: She’s a Quick Study!
The Hipster Homemaker
This is a guest post from The Hipster Homemaker. If you would like to be part of my The Other Women series and write about your sexual identity, contact me! Your story can be silly, sexy or sad. There is no normal and all points of view are invited to join.
From the outside looking in, I seem every bit the “good girl.” I always got good grades, never got in trouble, and never got caught with my panties down. In high school, I had a good number of boyfriends, all of which I refused to sleep with. I am far from religious, and certainly not put off by sexuality, but as a young girl in high school, sex seemed to have too many negative consequences for me to want to do it. Sure, there were times I wanted to, but I always held back. Looking back, I also really got off on the power of telling these guys “no” when they wanted to move things along. Nope, I’m not going to fuck you. Too bad, dude, move on.
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Disney Tips and Suggestions
Hand-jobs TOTALLY not recommended on the Matterhorn
This last week at Disneyland, I realized that there were a few tips that I, as a frequent visitor need to share. Suggestions you might not see on other mommy/travel/Disney blogs.
Space Mountain, despite taking place in pitch black, is the worst place to give hand-jobs. As a mom who co-sleeps and never gets 2 minutes alone sitting next to my husband in the dark, it was tempting. It is a fast paced roller coaster veering with no notice to the right or the left unexpectedly(adding to the fun really), but there is a bar, holding you in your seat, and your target penis in their pants. I’m pretty sure they planned it that way.
The best place in the park to give a hand job is the back seat of the Bee-hicle that carries you through the Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh, a halucinagic dream that the Disney imagineers have curiously created and called a childs ride. Just be sure you are quick about it. You have less then two minutes.
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Cuckolding
I expect this house to be spic 'n span by the time I get home from my date!
You know, I like you as a person. You make a great father and a fabulous husband. I really enjoy spending time with you. It’s just one thing. I don’t like having sex with you. You just don’t turn me on. Your cock is too small and you just really don’t know how to use it. And you know what? I hate the way you go down on me. And giving you a blow job makes me feel like I’m molesting a small boy. I need a real man, with a real cock. And realistically, my sex drive is SO much higher then yours that it just makes sense for me to take on a lover. Or maybe two. And lets face it. I’m much hotter a woman then you EVER thought you would get, so I’m thinking you will be ok with this. I’m sure you will be happy with what ever little sweet morsels of affection I dole out to you, won’t you pet? I’m thinking this will be a lot easier on you if I lock your cock away in a chastity belt so you won’t have to worry about that useless little thing bothering you. Now be a good little man and pick out some lingerie for me to wear tonight on my date. Make sure it’s super sexy! I want to get fucked HARD!
The Other Women
The Other Women
My Dirty Talk series got me thinking about the woman who read my blog. They all have a sexual background, but in different ways. Sometimes the same things shape us, rape, abuse etc, but we react differently. We become over sexualized or a-sexual, submissive or dominant.
We worry about what our lovers would think if they knew what we were really thinking about during sex. Or if they knew what we were really watching play out in our brains while we masturbate. We worry about the PTA and the neighbors and the kids finding out. We let the teachings of our church or our parents rule what we think we should find sexually pleasing, even when it doesn’t please us at all.
We wonder if something is wrong with us. We feel guilty about our interests and desires.
And we shouldn’t.
Small Penis Humiliation
Small Penis Humiliation
The first time I did a SPH scene (yes, it’s popular enough to have a short {ha ha} nick name) I worked in a fetish house. The phone girl asked me if I was into it and I thought… That is HILARIOUS! Sign me up!
After a brief negotiation, I took the cash, and left to put the signed disclaimer away. When I returned to the room, my rather attractive client had stripped down and was kneeling on the floor stroking his tiny, totally unfit to actually satisfy a woman cock.
Except it wasn’t tiny and insignificant. It. Was. Huge!
So I did what any woman in that situation would do. You know. A woman who was single and really missing regular sex. When confronted with a naked rather attractive man. And his giant cock. Who just wants to be humiliated about how small it is.
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Dirty Talk: Humiliation
Humiliation
What if The Dirty Talk your SO is looking to hear is not just the standard naughty verb + body part = Heelloooo Nurse! fare? Humiliation is hugely diverse area ranging from the subtly erotic to the physical or public with long stops in race and religion. But where to begin?
Because this is such a mental game, knowing your partners subtle queues are of paramount importance. It’s fine line between getting your partner off in a massive fashion and having a rather tense morning-after breakfast. I would suggest discussing limits and interests before hand and using a safe word. Or you can take baby steps – adding little things each time you play. Also, make sure any emotional scaring is well known. Don’t threaten to rape a rape survivor, or accidentally call someone the same pet name (bitch, cunt, cum guzzler) that a former lover or abuser called them.
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What if…
What if...?
Just in case, after making naughty new friends, and doing your reading home work, you are still having a hard time finding something to talk about in the bedroom, I present you with a list of What Ifs.
You’re welcome.
What if you bought a strap-on? Would you wear it to penetrate him? Or would he use it to double penetrate you?
What if the sexy girl the two of you picked up turned out to be a transexual with a nice hard cock?
What if he lost a bet with you and you sent to see a dominatrix? What would you make her do to him? Tie him up? Whip him? Make him worship her shoes?
What if he was rewarded with a slave girl for the day? But only if he put on a show for you with her … or made her do things to you? What would she do?
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